Understand the patterns you keep repeating
Explore procrastination, avoidance, impulsive behaviour, digital habits and the routines that can be difficult to understand or change.
Inner Thought Group looks beyond the behaviour itself and explores the patterns that may help explain why it keeps happening.
Repeated behaviour can be more complicated than willpower
A behaviour may continue because it provides relief, reduces discomfort, creates distraction, avoids uncertainty or has simply become automatic over time.
Procrastination can sometimes involve overwhelm, perfectionism or fear of starting. Avoidance may make something feel easier in the short term while leaving the original problem waiting in the background.
Understanding what tends to happen before, during and after a repeated behaviour can often reveal more than judging the behaviour on its own.
Explore questions about habits, avoidance and repeated behaviour
Choose from the habits and behaviour assessments currently available in the Inner Thought Group library.
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Take the assessmentWhy Am I So Bored?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Avoid Things I Care About?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Hold Myself Back?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Isolate Myself From Everyone?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Keep Making the Same Mistakes?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Need to Be in Control?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Pick at My Skin?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Procrastinate So Much?
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Take the assessmentWhy Do I Self-Sabotage When Things Are Going Well?
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Take the assessmentWhat can keep a pattern going?
Repeated behaviour can be influenced by immediate relief, automatic routines, avoidance and emotional triggers.
Immediate relief
A behaviour may reduce discomfort, boredom or uncertainty now even when it creates more difficulty later.
Automatic routines
Repeated behaviours can become linked with particular times, places, devices, feelings or triggers without much conscious thought.
Avoidance
Putting something off can temporarily reduce fear, uncertainty, frustration or the discomfort of getting started.
Emotional triggers
Stress, loneliness, frustration, boredom and strong emotions can make familiar behaviours more tempting or automatic.
Look at what happens around the behaviour
Repeated frustration can sometimes be a clue that there is more behind a behaviour than simply a lack of discipline.
What do I usually feel just before I put something off?
Which situations make me most likely to fall back into an old habit?
What immediate benefit do I get from doing this, even if I regret it later?
Do I tend to act before I have fully considered the consequences?
Which behaviours happen almost automatically when I am bored or stressed?
What pattern keeps appearing even though I already understand that it causes problems?
Asking “why does this keep happening?” can reveal more than simply telling yourself to stop
A repeated behaviour may provide comfort, distraction, stimulation, familiarity or temporary relief even when its longer-term consequences are frustrating.
Noticing the circumstances, thoughts and feelings around a behaviour can help you understand the pattern more clearly.
Habit and behaviour tools are not clinical diagnoses
Future Inner Thought Group habit assessments will be intended for general education and self-reflection. They will not be designed to diagnose addiction, obsessive-compulsive disorder, ADHD, impulse-control disorders or other medical or mental-health conditions.
If a behaviour feels uncontrollable, is causing significant harm or is seriously affecting your health, relationships, finances or daily life, consider seeking support from an appropriately qualified professional or specialist service.
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